TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS

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Relationship! Relationship! Relationship!My people , I hope at some point have come across this word or maybe most of you have/are the source of it .
A good place to start when talking about relationship is to define what a relationship is .There is the cerebral definition but we will stick to what people mean , in everyday conversation , when they say relationship. Relationship is an emotional and sexual association between two people .
Why do people engage in relationships ?people are into relationships for different purposes ; financial support , to be healed from heartbreaks , to avoid depression and desperation, and mostly being loved unconditionally . To me , I say the best relationship is between a child and his /her parents or human beings and God .
Today we wanna discuss about some of the toxic relationships among university students.
According to my research most students start dating while in high school , others go to an extent of dating while in the 6th class .But why do people start new relationships in universities? That is the question you have to ask yourself .Students are very funny , while their parents clearly know that their children are in their last level of education doing their best to remove their families from poverty not knowing the children they are talking about are playing husband and wife roles in the universities .

Most students engage in relationships knowing they have gotten their soulmates , they have gotten partners they will have a bright future with , only to realize what they got are "Saulmates"  , people who will ruin their lives , heart break them , cause them depression and most of them end up committing suicide after all that . Its very sad , your parents took you to school to get education you end up dying for stupid reasons .
Students have been eloping with lecturers for them to be supported educationally . Its so funny that your good performance in exams is determined by that thing between your legs instead of your brain .You graduate with a first class , your parents brag and boost saying they have a very intelligent child, hahahaha , they don't know what brought that first class home .

Financially. 'sponyos' have been the trend among university students .Most students have never 'kujikubali ' in their economic status , they always want to be seen living expensive live . In that case, sponsors come in between . Sponsors act as mobile banks to the students ,in exchange the students know what they give .The sponsors use the students for sexual pleasure in exchange for money only to leave them with scars that will forever not heal , either a heartbreak , pregnancy or even contracting the giant virus , HIV . Your parents took you to school to reduce the load of poverty in your family, you end up adding  another one to them, so sad.
There have been so many cases of students engaging with prominent people and the end they get dumped,after their lives are ruined and some even get killed to avoid destroying the reputation of the leader

Peer pressure .This is another devil that ruins students lives in universities .Most students are not determined , they have their decisions made by other people . Most students have been living other peoples lives instead of living their own lives .Other students are into relationship not because they fell in love , its because their friends are into it . It sounds funny , but thats the reality . Why don't you make your decisions (right ) according to what your brain thinks. After all a university friend is just a person that you are together for a season , after that everyone will go his/her ways . What will you take home ?Will your parents , relatives , village people be proud of you ? Or will they be regretting why they took you to school .Those are the questions you have to ask yourself  .

STUDENT THINK BEFORE MAKING ANY DECISION , THINK BEFORE TAKING THE NEXT STEP , THINK BEFORE TAKING ANY NECESSARY ACTION

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                           LIFE IS A SCAM

Life is very funny . One cannot live life by him/herself until they depend on another .No one was born much know .There must be something that you are weak in . Human beings have both strengths and weaknesses and for one to strengthen the weaknesses , he/she needs another .
For instance for you to eat you need to know how to cook , if not then you need a cook .No one ever won by playing defence , you have to play as a striker , score goals but then you need the wingers to give you crosses for you to score , then we have the goalkeeper who makes sure you attain the victory by not allowing any goal opponent from entering the net . So we need each other .
Life is just like the fingers of a hand.They are of different sizes, weight and height but that does not mean that one is more important than the other . If u wanna prove that I am talking sense , just try to cut one of your finger or observe someone who lacks one , you will surely know the importance of all them . We need each other .
In life we are all trying to put food on the table . Living a good life , owning expensive cars , good house , many companies is just an added blessing .
There is a good thing I love about nature . Nature has a way of neutralizing us .No matter the bragging , the despisement that you make to others because they are of poor standard , they arent the level you are in , economically poor , educationally poor , short by height , fat , or they have certain disabilities , we will all enter naked in a mortuary fridge .No one will enter with clothes , and you will need the help of others to put you in the fridge , you wont by yourself , you will be no more .
So the question I ask mylself everyday , why despise someone and may be they might be of very much help to you in future ?Maybe they are the once who will be bring a larger contribution as condolence to your funeral for you to be burried in a good environment (good clothes , expensive coffin ) when you are no more .
Why dont we live like blind people , they dont know the weakness Or disabilities of others cause they cannot see . Why dont we love one another the way we are
Being rich is not an opportunity to despise the poor , being handsome /beautiful is not an opportunity to despise the ugly neither being tall is not .
Not unless people change their attitude , behaviours towards others , the world will be the worst place to live in .